tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51776819677668966852024-02-08T14:30:05.986+08:00創造天堂我們正處於決定人類命運的關鍵交叉路口,是走向自我毀滅,還是邁向太平盛世,由我們自己決定。而教育,則扮演了解放人類的關鍵角色。苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.comBlogger178125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-23002848665565653122018-10-18T14:42:00.002+08:002018-10-19T10:55:12.874+08:00比知識方法技巧更重要的,那才是全方位人才培訓營要教的<span style="font-size: large;">大多數人進入職場後會發現,以前在學校所學能實際運用出來的真的很少,對工作沒有太大的幫助。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">所有學習都有一個共同的目的,就是獲得一個更好的「結果」,一個更好的人生。如果你喜歡看書、聽演講,我相信下面這個過程你一定不陌生:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">你回想一下,學校教你的有哪些東西?是不是著重在知識、方法、技巧,也就是你「如何做」以及「做什麼」。<b><span style="color: #b45f06;">這些都是在「行動」的這個層級上做調整。</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">再看看那個過程,「行動」距離「結果」是最接近的,如果直接從行動上做調整,那麼也可以比較快看到結果的改變。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">補習班也是一樣,教你各種速解法、記憶法、猜題法,任何可以幫你考高分的技巧,以及反覆練習以加速你作答的速度與正確率,這些也都是「行動」層級的努力。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">出了社會後會發現,坊間大多數的培訓課程也是著重在知識、方法、技巧的傳授上。雖然整體而言,因為要自費學習,因為有具體需求(要解決特定問題),上這些課程的成效比學校還好,但真正能從這些課程中獲得巨大的學習成效的,往往還是少數。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">也就是說,<b><span style="color: #b45f06;">我們從小到大的學習,大多都著重在知識、方法、技巧上。</span></b>之所以這樣,是因為這世界不斷的在向我們展示那些成功者做對了什麼。<b>我們比較容易把「行動」跟「結果」連結起來,因為它們距離最近,因果關係最為明顯。</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">我們相信,那些成功者之所以成功,是因為他掌握了一般人不知道的知識、獨特的方法,或者更厲害的技巧。也因此,我們就不斷的自願掏錢給那些販賣知識、方法、「秘技」的人,想要藉此獲得豐厚的回報。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">然而結果往往是令大多數人失望的。他們要嘛不是發現那方法不適合自己,要嘛無法堅持去用它,直到看到顯著的成果。有些人甚至因此放棄學習,說「那都是在騙錢的」。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">當然,我不否認確實有些人靠販賣無效的、劣質的課程,藉由過度包裝來騙錢。然而<b>大多數人學習之所以不見成效,主要原因還是以下兩點:</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">就像每個人做的工作都不一樣,需要用到的知識、方法也都不同,(現階段)學校不可能為每個人量身訂做學習內容,只能用大鍋飯的方式教授,也因此「不適合自己」的部分當然會佔很大的比例。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">這條捷徑註定會失敗的,但我不明白為何體制教育,還有人們為何還放那麼多的比重在知識、方法、技巧的學習上,即使經驗了那麼多無效或短暫的學習。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="color: red;">要能夠長期且有效的改變結果,並不是從最近的「行動」去改變起,而是應該從最根本的「價值觀(信念)」改變起。</span></b>當一個人具有正確的價值觀,具備成功者所具備的信念,他才能堅持學習、行動,直到獲得他想要的結果。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">假如體制教育能多一些價值觀、信念的傳授,去啟發、強化每個學生的動機,只要提供足夠的資源,學生自己就會根據自己的需求,去補足他所需要的知識、方法、技巧,直達他要的結果。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">然而這條路卻是最費時的,因為價值觀(信念)需要很長時間的發酵,才能看到結果的改變。這條路也是最難的,因為只要牽涉到價值觀(信念)的教授,就很難避免爭議與反彈,因此大多數的人寧可不碰。要達成所有人價值觀一致,或者對於哪些價值觀該放入課程中要有共識,都艱難無比。</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">但如果我們的目標是看到長期有效的改變,想看到一個更好的結果,我們就必須把我們學習的重心,從如何「行動」轉移到自己的價值觀及信念上,而不是去追逐那些短暫的、效果有限的改變。</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">絕大多數學生報名全方位人才培訓營,也是希望從中學到一些知識、方法、技巧。當他們著重在這些事上,可能發現有些講師教的東西,他們已經「知道」了。有些人甚至會做出「沒學到什麼」的結論,而停止來上課。而只有那些堅持來上課的人,20堂、30堂、50堂、100堂,他們就愈能感受到價值觀、信念對他們產生的影響。(影響看事情的方式、思考方式、行為)</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">比如說,老師教的都知道了,但有「做到」嗎?有堅持做嗎?有做到最好嗎?如果沒有,那結果又會有什麼不同呢?而要能堅持做,想做到最好,沒有良好的價值觀及信念是辦不到的。</span></div>
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-51837890288136242432017-12-26T22:44:00.000+08:002017-12-26T22:44:09.250+08:00注意力就該這麼用!<h2 style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">我們都知道「選擇比努力更重要」、「結果是所有選擇的加總」,那我們就必須先學會分辨哪些事是我們該投入注意力,哪些事又會在不知不覺中減低或偷走我們的注意力。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">先說<b>哪些事是我們該投入注意力,其最首要的判斷標準是:<span style="color: #b45f06;">長期增益</span></b>,也就是長遠來看,這件事能帶給我們多大的好處。所有長遠能帶來好處的,就是投入注意力的好標的,而能帶來最多好處的,當然就是最好的標的。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">比如說定期運動,短期看會消耗大量能量,讓人覺得疲憊、肌肉酸痛,但長遠來看,卻對健康十分有益。比如說充足睡眠,短期看是會壓縮到做其它事的時間,卻讓人精神飽滿、頭腦清晰,長期下來,在學習與做事的質與量上都明顯比睡眠不足還要好。關於以上兩個舉例,有興趣不妨<span lang="EN-US">google</span>一下,網路上有非常多相關文章能給你詳盡的說明。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="color: #b45f06;">除了定期運動跟充足睡眠,我個人最推薦的還是「學習」,這是我認為該投入注意力的最好標的</span></b>。假如在舊方向上,用舊方法做事,再算做得再熟練,也有個天花板無法突破。唯有透過學習吸收新知,才能看見其它更有效率的做法,原本的天花板可能因此就輕易突破了。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">學習的管道有很多,上課、看書、閱讀雜誌、聽演講、線上課程、拜師、實作演練…只要是適合自己的,就是好的。不過要特別提醒的是,不同的學習管道能培養不同的敏感度、強化不同的能力,所以可以偏愛某一兩種學習管道,但其它的也不要放棄使用喔!<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">選對標的並不難。像上述的例子─定期運動、充足睡眠、學習,絕大多數人都知道它們的重要性,但是否願意在這些標的上投入足夠的時間,以及在投入的時間裡能否保有一定的專注,藉此提高成效,就造成了人與人之間的巨大差異。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">這裡先不談意願的問題。我們假設一個人知道該把注意力放在什麼事上,也有堅定的願意要去做它,那接下來要解決的問題就是:要如何保持專注?<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><b>1.</b></span><span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><b>設定明確的目標</b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: blue;">人們之所以容易分神,很大的一個原因是他們沒有目標,或是只有個非常模糊的目標</span>。由於目標不明確,他們就不知道該用多快的速度朝哪個方向前進,也因此無法感受到誘惑及干擾的危害,而在那些無關緊要的事情上浪費時間。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">相反的,假如在一開始為自己設定一個明確的目標<span lang="EN-US">(</span>最好寫下來貼在自己隨時看得到的地方<span lang="EN-US">)</span>,清楚知道什麼時間點前要完成什麼事,就比較能夠集中注意力,在誘惑或干擾出現時提醒自己回到該做的事上。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">最後,<b>我衷心建議少用手機記事</b>。很多人會覺得手機很方便,用手機備忘就好,何必再準備一本記事本,還要隨身帶著,多麻煩。然而,<b><span style="color: red;">手機本身就是個強大的干擾體</span></b>,說不定你打開手機要備忘,一個不小心就先上<span lang="EN-US">Line</span>或<span lang="EN-US">FB</span>,或是在各種<span lang="EN-US">APP</span>上無意識的浪費了大量的時間。記事本不是,它就只有一個目的:備忘。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-22137581113823422282017-12-08T20:29:00.000+08:002017-12-18T16:00:27.260+08:00比時間更重要的東西<h2 style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">我相信你曾經看過或聽過這句話:<b>你的時間花在哪裡,你的成就就在哪裡</b>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">這句話非常好理解,也幾乎不會遭到質疑。畢竟,我們從小到大看到、聽到的成功案例,幾乎都印證了「成功沒有奇蹟,只有累積」這句話。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">但這並不表示在某件事上花了大量的時間,就一定能有所成就,也不一定你在某事上比別人花更多的時間,就會在那件事上取得比別人還要高的成績。畢竟,這跟個人天賦、可運用的資源、從事的工作,甚至是運氣也有很大的關係。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">說到這,你可能會想起長輩在你受挫時給你的勉勵:<b>努力不一定會成功,但要成功一定要努力</b>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">沒錯,努力並不保證能夠成功,<b>只能提高我們成功的概率</b>。在方向、方法正確,以及其餘客觀條件都相同的情況下,努力愈多,確實能讓我們比別人有更高的機率獲得成功。但,也只是機率比較高,沒有<span lang="EN-US">100%</span>的保證。這世界上總有些非常努力,但極度不幸運的倒楣鬼。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">關於選擇方向、學習方法,你可以從許多地方搜集到相關資訊。在這裡,我想跟你分享一個比「時間」還更重要的東西,它同時也是選擇方向、學習方法的核心。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: , sans-serif;">我把最開頭的那段話的前面加上一小段,做點改寫:</span><b><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: , sans-serif;">你的</span></b><b><span style="color: red; font-family: , sans-serif;">注意力</span></b><b><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: , sans-serif;">在哪裡,你的時間就花在哪裡,你的成就就在哪裡</span></b><span style="font-family: , sans-serif;">。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">是的,那個比「時間」還更重要的東西,就是「注意力」。你的時間,基本上只會花在那些你注意,或者是說關注、重視的事情上。如果一件事、一項東西沒有吸引你的注意力,你也就不可能會花時間去做跟它有關的任何事情。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">那我為什麼說「注意力」比「時間」更重要呢?<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">因為<b>時間沒有優劣高下之分,但注意力有</b>。你花<span lang="EN-US">10</span>分鐘讀書,我也花<span lang="EN-US">10</span>分鐘讀同樣的書,花的時間一樣,但我們吸收進去的質與量卻不同。你可能是邊看邊分心想別的事,我則是極度專注在理解作者想要傳達的概念,甚至思考我如何將它運用在生活中,來改善生活。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">這就跟同樣坐在教室裡聽課一樣,有些人專心聽講,有些人忙著跟周公下棋,有些人在回想昨天跟父母吵架的情景,有些人則是等不及下課跟女朋友看電影去,他們學習的效果肯定有很大的差異。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: , sans-serif;">如果把這樣的差異放大到<span lang="EN-US">16</span>年<span lang="EN-US">(</span>國小<span lang="EN-US">~</span>大學<span lang="EN-US">)</span>,你可想而知,那差距會有多大。要是再放大到<span lang="EN-US">30</span>年、<span lang="EN-US">50</span>年呢?你想想,人生也不過就<span lang="EN-US">80</span>年、<span lang="EN-US">100</span>年,每個階段又有不同的課題要學習,若沒能夠在該階段要努力的事情上放足注意力,不僅會耽誤下階段的發展,而且往往沒機會再回頭補修沒修好的課題。</span><b><span style="color: blue; font-family: , sans-serif;">很多人就是這樣誤了自己,以致於早早就註定一輩子都沒有機會再追上其他人了</span></b><span style="font-family: , sans-serif;">。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">我還是要再強調一下,這都是在客觀條件相同的狀況下所做的比較。現實生活中當然存在著很多影響一個人是否成功的因素,但那些因素絕大多數都不是我們所能控制與改變的。然而注意力卻是我們可以選擇要運用在哪裡的。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">就算不跟別人比好了,你也可以運用前面的例子跟自己比:一個是專注學習的你,一個是分心的你,然後再將其放大<span lang="EN-US">3</span>年、<span lang="EN-US">5</span>年、<span lang="EN-US">10</span>年。能想像他們間的差距會有多麼大嗎?能預測他們未來誰比較能過上自己滿意的生活嗎?<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">如今,資訊爆炸、智慧型手機普及,加上社群媒體、商家不斷改良設計出讓人愈容易上癮的產品,人們的專注力因此不斷下降。<b>若是能刻意訓練自己的專注力,能更加熟練、自然地把注意力放在學習、思考、選擇、練習上,將能大大提升自己勝出的機會</b>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">先提一下注意力的兩個重點:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: , sans-serif;">2.</span></b><b><span style="font-family: , sans-serif;">要如何保持專注</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">下一篇,我將再針對這兩點與你分享如何善用你的注意力。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">以大學新生為例,每一年的大一新生,跟前一年的大一新生相比,</span><span style="color: red; font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif"; font-size: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">整體</span><span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">的理解力、邏輯思考、問題分析與解決、耐性、學習力、企圖心及積極度,以及禮貌及素養,都不斷往下滑。相對的,依賴性、茫然、短視、求速成、分心、低責任感的狀況,卻愈來愈嚴重。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">兩年前,當我意識到這樣轉變、趨勢正在發生時,我感到震驚與焦慮,因為我並沒有在這群大學生身上觀察到「變好」的部分。有人說現在的年輕人有想法、有創意,更渴望表達自我,這點我同意,但我觀察到的是更多人的眼裡是空洞的、茫然的、沒自信的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">會得出這樣的結論,源自於我發現我自己也是「被害者」之一。排隊時、等人時、沒事可做時、無聊時,我就會習慣性地拿起手機,一下開<span lang="EN-US">Facebook</span>,一下開<span lang="EN-US">Line</span>,一下開<span lang="EN-US">IG</span>,一下開遊戲。這看似無害的習慣,實際上在我要專注做一件事時,不論是工作、看書、吃飯、跟人交談,我都很難不分心,三不五時心思就會飄到手機的各種應用程式上,或是經由它們所接收到的訊息上。<span lang="EN-US">(</span>雖然我自認比起身旁的人,要來得能夠自我克制了。<span lang="EN-US">)</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">這其實也很好理解。人們只要有一點空閒時間,大腦就會想做點什麼去填塞它,好讓這段時間「不浪費」。而手機裡頭有各式各樣好玩的、新鮮的事,而且它剛好就在身上,做這件事幾乎不費力,便下意識地就打開它滑呀滑的,並且慢慢固化成習慣。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">現在大學生沒智慧型手機的,可以說是極少數的異類了。對於常常喊無聊,需要做些外人看起來智障、無意義的事來殺時間的大學生來說,智慧型手機裡的<span lang="EN-US">APP</span>無異能提供各式各樣殺時間的方式:追劇、回訊息<span lang="EN-US">(</span>講幹話<span lang="EN-US">)</span>、刷存在感、打遊戲、看不完的新聞<span lang="EN-US">/</span>知識文<span lang="EN-US">/</span>廢文<span lang="EN-US">/</span>酸文<span lang="EN-US">/</span>西斯文等等。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">看似拿零碎時間做了不少事,這樣就不用另外抽時間去做那些事,</span><b><span style="color: red; font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif"; font-size: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">但那些事真的有必要或者是重要的嗎?</span></b><span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">仔細想想,其實也沒那麼必要或重要。做或不做,說真的,並不會對生活或工作造成多大的影響,可是不斷這麼做,卻會對學習、工作、生活帶來強烈的負作用。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">學習上、工作上,甚至是生活中與人交談,都需要保有一定的專注度。習慣在零碎時間打開手機的人,一旦有幾分鐘,甚至幾十秒的等待時間,或是感到一絲無聊時,就很容易分神想拿起手機來刷。這會降低學習及工作效率,對人與人間的情感連結也會帶來破壞力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">把零碎時間拿去做那些事,就能有更多時間去做其它事嗎?對絕大多數的人來說並非如此。那些事往往不是必要或重要的,但卻很容易去做,因此很快就會養成習慣,甚至變成一種癮,在人們腦中生根茁壯。當人們有一段空間的時間可以做其它事,往往會不由自主地想到手機裡常用的<span lang="EN-US">APP</span>,一不小心,又會在它們上面花上大把的時間。當然,這又再一次強化了這種癮頭。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">過去在網路通訊沒那麼發達時,一個人若感到無聊,要立即獲取資訊,要找個人聊,或做件有趣而放鬆事,好填塞那段空白的時間,相對是困難的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">然而空白並不代表浪費時間,相反的,</span><b><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif"; font-size: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">生活中的空白反而讓人們能夠靜下心來思考,思考生命的價值,思考長遠的目標,或是對過去一段時間做反省檢討。</span></b><b><span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">它讓人們能夠從過去沉澱出生命的智慧,能夠從未來找到努力的方向及動力。</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">然而,智慧型手機卻讓許多人的人生「不留白」。對大腦不斷的刺激,讓人們不斷渴求下一個,再下一個刺激,而無法慢下來對生活做檢討,對未來做長遠規劃。久而久之,也逐漸喪失了這種深度思考的能力,短淺的思考讓他們一直忙著做生命中相對簡單但不重要的事,卻對真正重要的大事感到束手無策。而對長遠重要的事無法深度思考所帶來的無力感,又進一步強化做立即簡單的事的衝動。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">不過最後還是要澄清,智慧型手機並非不好,也沒有必要「戒掉」它。它只是個功能強大的工具,我們如何使用它,將決定它是為我們的生活帶來益處較多,還是害處較多。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">至於如何善用手機這項工具呢?有興趣的,強力推薦閱讀</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="color: blue; font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif"; font-size: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><a href="http://www.books.com.tw/products/0010758381" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US">《深度工作力》</span></a></span></b><span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;">這本書,裡頭有提供許多實用的方法及策略,幫助你遠離它帶來的各種負作用。而這也是我自己目前努力在生活中實踐、修練的課題。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體" , "sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">這是截自商業周刊(<span lang="EN-US" style="color: blue;"><i><b><a href="http://www.businessweekly.com.tw/article.aspx?id=21195&type=Blog" target="_blank">27<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US">歲女生一流大學畢業、英國交換學生、美國念研究所,為何主管卻猶豫該不該錄取她?</span></span></a></b></i></span>)的一段話,建議先看過<span style="color: red;"><a href="http://www.businessweekly.com.tw/article.aspx?id=21195&type=Blog" target="_blank"><b>原文</b></a></span>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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</span><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">這並不像一般人所說,因為他們錢夠多了,所以才不那麼在乎錢。事實上,這因果是倒過來的:</span><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;"><span style="color: #b45f06;">因為他們原本就看重時間勝於金錢,所以才會變得有錢。</span></span><br />
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</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">他們很早就明白這一生的時間是有限的,而且只會消耗不會再生。但金錢不是,花掉了,再賺就有。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #b45f06;"><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;">他們花錢的原則是:這能為我省下</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;">未來的</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;">)</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;">時間。</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">所以,在滿足基本生活開銷的狀況下,當他們有了一筆錢,他們首先做的不是拿去吃喝玩樂、買名牌精品,而是「投資」。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
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</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">然後,他們賺到更多的錢,再拿這些錢買下別人的時間,請別人幫他們做例行雜事,他們自己則繼續學習,繼續投資,然後賺到更多更多的錢。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">一般人則是反過來。他們把錢看得太重,寧可為了折扣、免費去大排長龍,或是買一些會佔用他們太多時間的爛產品或爛服務。更慘的,是那些為了獲取身分認同,去買遠超過他們能力能負擔的名牌精品,讓自己更沒有多餘的錢去買能幫他們省下時間的產品及服務。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white;"><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">曾有人給我這個答案:「因為大學生沒錢,但有太多的時間。」但我認為,這是因為</span><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;"><span style="color: red;">學校的教育從沒教導過他們時間的重要性,沒有引導他們從更遠的未來回頭看現在學習的價值。</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">當然,有些大學生的父母</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">大多是有錢的父母</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;">)</span></span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">從小就灌輸他們「時間大於金錢」的觀念,他們也因此比較懂得付費學習,就是在幫自己省下大量的時間。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">大學一樣過四年,僅一個價值觀念的差異,就讓這兩種人在每個決策點上做出不同的選擇。累積到畢業時,他們擁有的職場起點也截然不同。而且,他們之間的差距還會持續、加速擴大。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span lang="EN-US" style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /><br />
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</span><span class="textexposedshow"><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">首先要學的,就像很多有錢人說的:</span><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;"><span style="color: #b45f06;">想要變得有錢,就要先懂得花錢</span></span><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">-</span><span style="background: white; font-family: , serif;"><span style="color: blue;">懂得花錢在那些能為你未來省下更多時間的東西上</span></span><span style="background: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: , serif;">。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); line-height: 21.6px;">學習胃口、思考力,可能會因為廣泛多元的學習而被打開,<wbr></wbr>才發現原來知識並不是井中看到的一小片,而是無邊無際,<wbr></wbr>永遠也學不完,這可能會為你帶來焦慮。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">但就算是專業、有歷史的培訓機構辦的課,有些還是讓我覺得</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">CP</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">值<wbr></wbr>太低,四天的內容讓</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">ATC</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的講師來講,大概四小時就能教完了。</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">每堂課都可能帶來全新的視野、觀點,刺激著你思考。隨著上</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">的課愈<wbr></wbr>多</span><span style="line-height: 21.6px;">,愈能夠自我覺察到哪裡需要調整、如何調整,<wbr></wbr>逐漸學會掌控自己的人生。</span></span></div>
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-28242585248110624282017-04-13T17:56:00.000+08:002017-10-01T14:48:11.754+08:00什麼人適合參加全方位人才培訓營?什麼人又不適合?這是在我大學時影響我最大的一個學習環境。十多年過去了,台灣教育看似變得更開放多元了些,但本質上還是以成績為重,學習的內容依舊窄化制式,一個大學新鮮人並沒有比十多年前的,要來得更瞭解自己、知道要往哪個方向去。<br />
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雖然到了今日,我仍舊認為全方位人才培訓營對大多數大學生的學習成長有所幫助,但我也必須承認並不是所有大學生都覺得自己有需求,也不是每個參加的人都懂得善用這個環境,充份吸收它所提供的養份,所以才撰寫了這篇文章。<br />
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在說明哪些人適合參加全方位人才培訓營,哪些人又不適合之前,請容我先分享一個觀念:沒有完美的人,也沒有完美的課程。有人喜歡,就有人討厭;有人說它好,就有人酸它爛。所以,我在這就省略用各種角度去分析它的優劣,而只關注它適不適合你參加。<br />
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<span lang="EN-US">1.</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , "serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">自信不足的人</span></h3>
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-89192954554519088282015-12-24T12:09:00.000+08:002015-12-24T12:09:04.232+08:00Re [問卦] 有沒有「全方位人才培訓營」(A.T.C)的八卦<span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;">上個月班上來了一個自稱<strong><span style="color: blue;">青年人才培育學院</span></strong>的助教,跟班上同學宣傳<strong><span style="color: green;">全方位人才培訓營</span></strong>的課程,說是要培養我們的<strong><span style="color: darkorange;">軟硬實力</span></strong>,還有企業提供補助,那助教的口才真的是非常了得(</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;">應該有受過專業訓練吧)</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;">,當下聽了真的很心動,就跟著班上大概7</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;">、8</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;">個同學一起報名了。</span></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Georgia, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.6px; line-height: 23.4px;" /><br />
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總在考試前兩週<b><span style="color: blue;">(用「幾週」範圍太大了)</span></b>、交報告前一週,才會讓事情的完成百分比,像股票連日漲停板一樣直線飆升<span style="color: blue; font-weight: bold;">(用圖像化,取代直述「有效率」)</span>?很熟悉的畫面嗎?<br />
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<strike><span style="color: #666666;">但對於部分年輕人就可能認為</span></strike><b><span style="color: blue;">(不是「可能」,這是事實,不需婉轉)</span></b>「明日復明日,明日何其多。」這似乎是當今許多年輕人抱持的心態,所以常會看到許多人平時無所事事,沒有好好把握時間,積極提早為未來做好準備,而總是在最後一刻匆匆忙忙草草了事,雖然成果品質不盡理想,但在壓力瞬間卸除後,又回到無所事事的狀態,如此反覆循環。<br />
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過去的我<b><span style="color: blue;">(與後面的承諾呼應)</span></b>,也曾跟多數大學生一樣,陷入這樣的循環中。而今天這場演講,楊智為老師與我們分享的許多觀念,能我們看見問題真正所在,幫助我們跳脫這負面的循環。<br />
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楊老師一開始就提到:時間管理就是<b><span style="color: red;">目標管理</span></b>。有目標,就需要規劃,這時才能感受到時間的流動<b><span style="color: blue;">(「時間流動」跟「存在感」放一起,很怪,感覺重複說了一件事。「時間流動」跟「時間的存在感」擇一即可)</span></b>,此時時間對自己而言,也才有意義與價值。這讓我聯想到以前國高中<b><span style="color: blue;">(三個字可以講完,且比較順,就不用寫「高中國中」)</span></b>寒暑假,總會有整個禮拜都待在家裡玩電腦<b><span style="color: blue;">(縮減字)</span></b>,玩到覺得很無聊<b><span style="color: blue;">(縮減字)</span></b>,反倒想趕快上學的情況。<b><span style="color: orange;">當生活沒目標時,再好玩的事也會漸漸變得單調乏味。</span></b><br />
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最近常在反省,為何我規劃的事情,往往只能完成7成?到底我的時間都花到哪裡去了?在這場講座中,我找到了答案!<b><span style="color: blue;">(直接接答案,但用「」代表這是講者說的)</span></b>「<span style="color: red;"><b>最重要的觀念就是,不要對時間太大方</b></span>,並且在行事曆上只安排重要的事情,規劃要有彈性,因為多數人很容易失衡,不是太多太滿,就是太少太閒,這都是不懂得珍惜時間。」完全符合我(及許多人)晚上常常東摸西摸,等到深夜才連夜趕工的狀況。<br />
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要做好時間管理,就要先建立運用時間的正確觀念,懂得區分什麼事情是「重要的」,什麼事情是「需要的」,什麼事情是「想要的」,並做好較長期的規劃,提前做好準備。然而「知道」並不等於「做到」,要養成良好的時間管理的習慣,還是需要在生活的道場中持續修練與實踐。<br />
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最後用楊老師的一句話與大家互相勉勵:「<b><span style="color: purple;">20歲時,要做30歲的事;30歲時,要做40歲的事。</span></b>」機會總是留給準備好的人,今後我會努力凡事提前做好準備,讓時間發揮更大的價值,也為自己賺得更多「未來」的時間。我們,一起加油!<br />
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-52800460831379245102015-04-25T10:09:00.002+08:002015-04-25T10:13:57.767+08:00(範例)【ATC】我的微革命~看見自己的力量 -心得新竹ATC全方位人才培訓營<br />
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如果你原本看得見,但卻遭遇視網膜病變而變成全盲,你會用什麼心態面對自己的人生?<span style="color: blue;"><b>(開頭用拋問題的方式,將觀眾捲進來)</b></span></div>
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今天的講者-林信廷老師,就遭遇這樣的「不幸」<span style="color: blue;"><b>(把一般人對全盲的想法寫出來,再創造對比)</b></span>,原本自己輕而易舉可以完成的事(例如正貼郵票),現在卻都要麻煩別人幫忙,愧疚、無能的感覺,有如烏雲一樣籠罩心裡。</div>
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舉例來說,林信廷老師演講中會請同學上台跳舞、唱歌。「什麼!全盲的舞者?」感到詫異的我,看到老師跳舞的姿勢充滿著力與美,取而代之的是一種佩服及感動的心情。「<span style="color: red;">看不見不是問題,最重要的是有沒有用心去學習。</span>」<b style="color: blue;">(用一句話總結重點)</b>老師拿自己證明,凡事只要用心學,終有一天一定能學得會。</div>
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整場演講,老師的分享一再衝擊我舊有的觀念,深深體會到,<span style="color: orange;"><b>原來看得見,反而限制了我們自己,忘了感謝,忘了珍惜有限的人生,活出生命的光彩。</b></span>「我可以,你也可以!」謝謝老師用自己的生命故事,讓我也看見自己的力量。<b><span style="color: blue;">(呼應主題)</span></b></div>
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過去不代表未來,人生總會有好有壞。<span style="color: purple;"><b>我們無法事事順心、樣樣成功,但要學習享受整個過程。</b></span>這是今天老師送我們最棒的禮物,也希望藉由我的心得分享,讓這份禮物能像蒲公英的種子一樣散播得更遠,讓更多人也能活出生命的光彩。</div>
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【全方位人才培訓營】星期日,你的升級日</div>
苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-58011348626625003302015-04-19T12:00:00.000+08:002015-04-25T08:21:33.266+08:00愛呀!唉呀!<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">14.愛是無法被量化比較的。別再問「你愛我比較多還是愛他比較多」,因為那是不同的愛,是無法被拿來比較的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">15.不要因為寂莫而想要找一個人;不要因為寂莫而接受一個人。弄清楚自己選擇在一起的出發點是什麼。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">17.他值得跟一個更好的人在一起,所以,讓自己變得更好吧!但不要照著對方的期望去改變,反而失去了自己,而是要利用那份期望帶來的力量,去幫助你做到你一直以來想要做到的改變(成為你心中那個更輝宏偉大的版本)。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">18.不要因為一時的感動而昏了頭,而是要從中去辨別,那是否能如實反映出對方是怎麼樣的人。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">19.我愛你=我願意成為你生命中一份支持的力量=我完完全全接受你=我內在的神看見了你內在的神</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">20.愛情不要操控,不要算計,愈簡單愈單純愈好。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">21.每個人都在等一個人,等一個能看見自己與眾不同的人。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">22.愛上了,是大腦的自然反應;愛多久,則是你自己可以決定。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="font-size: large;">23.用心愛過,就算最終沒有結果,留下遺憾,但總比不敢行動而事後感到悔恨要來得好。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">24.不要強求。如果你們的靈魂有約定好,命運自然會把你們緊緊綁在一起;如果你們的靈魂沒有約定,命運永遠不會讓你們在一起。</span><br />
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-5507202958187600962015-04-13T15:30:00.000+08:002015-04-13T07:22:10.383+08:00這一生,能有幾次16個夏天<span style="font-size: large;"> 拖了一個禮拜,今天終於把16個夏天最後一集給看完了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 「為什麼一個禮拜只看一集?不會想趕快知道結局是什麼嗎?」不會,因為我覺得這部戲值得放在心裡慢慢發酵、慢慢體會,就像真實的人生一樣,不需要急著知道結局是什麼。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 會喜歡這部戲的原因是,它不像其他偶像劇的風花雪月、誇大不實(看一小段就不想再繼續看下去了),也不像八點檔的灑狗血、歹戲拖棚。這部戲不管是劇情的安排,或是演員的演技、台詞,都讓人感覺很「真」。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 尤其是它把男女雙方內心的矛盾、糾結詮釋得很好。想靠近對方,又把自己推開;愛了,又開始擔心給不起對方幸福;為了不傷害對方,選擇沉默、消失。不管是謊言、隱瞞、猜想、逃避,雙方的出發點都是愛,用的卻不見得是對方能接收的方式,因而造成誤解,讓雙方彼此一再錯過。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 人生中有些功課若不親身經歷,就永遠學不會。然而經歷的過程,難免因為自己的不成熟、自以為而傷害到他人。在看了這部戲後,我想,我已經稍稍瞭解為何有些人寧可將自己封閉起來,不再去愛。他們不是不勇敢,而是他們不想對愛的人造成傷害,所以把那份愛埋在心底,交給時間淡化。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 是否學習愛的過程中,有一種能夠不造成傷害的方法?我也希望有,但換個角度想,也許正是因為這些傷害讓我們痛徹心扉、感同身受,才能讓我們真正學會如何去愛。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 縱使牽手、放手,都是為了愛,但若為了避免傷害而選擇逃離,會不會,你其實也奪走對方學習愛的機會?會不會,你因此錯過了那個正在等你的人?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 這一生,能有幾次16個夏天?一次!這樣的16個夏天,就這麼一次。愛中有愛,就勇敢去愛,給彼此一個學習的機會。千萬不要給自己太多的理由,一再錯過,因為錯過了,你不知道還會不會有下次的機會。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">PS.片尾曲跟這部戲真的太搭了!把矛盾、糾結都給唱了出來。不過…聽太久可能會有沉悶的副作用喔!XD</span>苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-25611544286504618892015-02-28T19:04:00.000+08:002015-02-28T19:04:35.606+08:00可否用愛,化解那家家有本難唸的經?<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; text-indent: 24.0pt;">
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: large;">我並不認為需要去斤斤計較每個人對家裡的付出有多少。有能力的,就多承擔一些就好。過去父親比較有能力時,為這個家族多承擔一些也是應該的,父親並沒有因為過去付出了許多,現在就要向兄弟們索求些什麼。但當這些承擔、被利用,成就了兄弟們比自己擁有更好的成就後,卻遭遇漠視,聽不到一句感謝,想必是讓人感到非常心寒的。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: large;">人的本性是自私的,但我也相信,人的本性中也有愛及分享。當兄弟們各自有了自己的家庭,會為自己的家庭爭取大塊一點的餅,也是人之常情。但爭餅的同時,可否少點自私,少點利用,少點欺騙,多點溝通,多點坦承,多點承擔,讓彼此的關係可以更加和諧點,讓這個家的愛可以多一點,讓每個人內心的傷疤可以少一點?<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老實說,我並不知道坐辦公室吹冷氣好不好,我只知道,如果沒有人要種田,每個人都會餓死。如果我長大後只能種田,我也會覺得那是件很有價值的事。那時的我,對未來要做什麼仍有很多的想像,就像大多數的孩子一樣,每個階段期望成為的人都不一樣。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<u><span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">那一年,我在好多人的身上看見了自己過去的縮影,看見<b><span style="color: #0070c0;">台灣教育鮮少教導學生如何瞭解自己、找到未來方向</span></b>的問題。</span></u><span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我知道很多大學生像我過去一樣茫然不知所措,即使是個滿腹經綸的讀書人,也如同只能佇立在田中的稻草人,而我希望幫他們重拾希望與熱情,因而踏上了體制外教育的這條路。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">雖然現在的我,還是個<span lang="EN-US">Nobody</span>,但確實看到不少年輕的生命,因為我們的努力而找到方向,漸漸散發出他們應有的自信光芒。<b>我會堅持下去,幫助更多稻草人,成為生命中的鋼鐵人。</b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-63973579613825768352015-02-05T20:37:00.002+08:002015-02-05T20:44:26.554+08:00我在三年前寫的網誌,連我自己都嚇一跳-全方位人才培訓營<div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> <span lang="EN-US">3</span>年前,我在<span lang="EN-US">yam</span>天空部落寫了一篇網誌,談的是我選錯科系、迷惘,到參加全方位人才培訓營、成為志工,開始對台灣教育問題有些反思,並在文後根據自身經驗,給予大學生的幾點建議。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> 對這麼大量點閱數好奇的我,直覺想到「<b><span style="color: #38761d;"><span lang="EN-US">Google</span>關鍵字</span></b>」。在一一回覆完網友的留言後,<span lang="EN-US">Google</span>了一下「生命科學系」,發現前三頁都是各大學生科系的介紹。看到左下方「相關搜尋」第一個「<b><span style="color: #b45f06;">生命科學系出路</span></b>」,點過去後發現我的文章排名首頁第三名,而<span lang="EN-US">Yahoo</span>的排名是首頁第二名。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> 這段時間內被轉貼到哪,轉貼了幾次,我完全無從得知,但在沒刻意經營的狀況下有這樣的點擊量<span lang="EN-US">(</span>平均一個月近<span lang="EN-US">1000</span>筆<span lang="EN-US">)</span>,肯定文章裡頭有提到許多網友關心的點。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> <b><span style="color: red;">打從大學時代擔任志工開始,就發現<span style="background-color: yellow;">「迷惘」是許多大學生沒說出口的擔憂</span>。過了十年,大學生的迷惘指數反而更高了。</span></b>一邊是快速變動的世界,一邊是還停留在理論教授的填鴨式教育,兩者的差距,剛好與年輕人的迷惘指數成正比。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">(台北ATC演講結束後,學員們與黃璦婷老師的互動)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> 就算<span style="color: #38761d;"><b>全方位人才培訓營</b></span>持續舉辦,縮小大學生的想像與現實世界的差距;就算<b><span style="color: blue;">卓越生命體驗營</span></b>持續開辦,強化大學生對自我的瞭解,並挖掘內在潛藏的勇氣,但<b>父母愈來愈不敢放手、學校愈來愈官僚與封閉、社會愈來愈瀰漫負面訊息與謾罵聲,讓年輕人愈覺無力,愈不敢為自己的人生做出改變。</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> 如何打破這種負循環呢?我並不知道。我只知道自己目前能做的,就是跟著<b>楊智為老師</b>及所有關心台灣教育、致力於培育青年人才的同仁們堅守崗位,在能力所及的範圍內,影響那群還懷抱希望、對生命有熱情的大學生。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 微軟正黑體, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"> <span style="color: purple;"><b>黑夜總會過去,太陽總會升起。當台灣教育露出一線曙光時,我們會很自豪,我們都曾參與其中。</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">一個沒有恐懼的世界。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: blue;"><b>基本的「生存權」是受到保障的。</b></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">沒有人會被餓死,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">每個人的基本需求都能被滿足。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">而食物永遠夠滿足所有的人,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">因為每個人都只取足夠的份量。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">因為基本的生存權受到保障,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">沒有人需要為了「活下去」而犯罪、<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">或是被迫從事其他有害身心靈的工作。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">不用活在「失業餓死」的恐懼中,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">不需掩飾錯誤,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">不用處心積慮為自己爭奪最大一塊餅,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">而能夠用分享互助取代猜疑陷害,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="color: #a64d79;">讓焦點從防備失去轉移到共同創造價值。</span></b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="color: red;">工作,成了每個人實現自我、創造價值的最佳實踐場。</span></b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">沒有人會被任何一所學校拒絕,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">且所有學習都是免費的,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">每個人可自由選擇各種知識、技能、智慧的學習。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">學校的經營重點並非爭奪排名、資源,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">並非討好家長、學生,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">而是<b><span style="color: #e69138;">唯一專注在提升教學</span></b>,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">讓有心走入校園學習的每個人都能獲得最大的收穫。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">因為基本的教育權受到保障,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">每個人都能依自己的天賦、興趣、志向做學習的選擇,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">不需活在不足、否定的感受中,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">讓學習後的運用,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">我相信這樣的人是極少數,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">絕大多數人會被他人因努力工作,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">讓這世界變得更美好,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">而找到那份存在的價值及喜悅所觸動,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">追隨他們的腳步。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">況且,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">對於那些極少數的人而言,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">無法獲得他人因貢獻而產生的喜悅,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "微軟正黑體","sans-serif";"><span style="font-size: large;">就是對他們最大的處罰了,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 每天新聞報導的,不外乎三大類:<u>負面新聞</u>、<u>生活小確幸</u>、<u>娛樂八卦新聞</u>(所以我都不怎麼看新聞的)。前者放大了負面訊息,讓人不自覺聚焦在負面事件上,覺得台灣真是個鬼島,生活在台灣真是悲慘。後面兩者,則用來提供這些人一些心靈上的慰藉,平衡一下負面新聞的傷害,但本質上卻是沒什麼營養的東西。(沒營養的可以吃,但用量過多會有害身心健康)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> <b><span style="color: red;">被這樣的新聞資訊餵養的台灣人,失去了很多東西:樂觀、開朗、包容、單純、希望、信任、前進的動力,還有心靈的健康</span></b>,然後把自己的世界愈活愈小,愈活愈不開心。明明一則報導的重點在於如何提升、如何更好,但就會不自覺地偏離焦點,放大論述上的瑕疵,甚至延伸到對作者做人身攻擊,像是「你犯了天大的錯,怎麼不去死一死?」一樣。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 前幾天,我看見一個粉絲專頁的轉貼的一篇文章,作者提供另一個「如何更好」的思維,讓我覺得有所收穫。平時不看粉絲頁留言的我,意外點開留言後發現罵聲一片(我也懶得一篇篇仔細看,有些措詞真的是很…)。我心想:「有這麼嚴重嗎?」</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> <b><span style="color: blue;">沒有人是完美的。</span></b>為了給作者一些加油打氣,我簡短回覆了:「台灣人特別愛挑問題罵,焦點多不是放在如何提升。辛苦了。」沒想到就有一堆網友「受不了」而將砲火對準我。只能說,短短的文字無法表達完整的心意,遇到「特別敏感」的人,硬是要扭曲放大,聚焦負面解讀,真的無可奈何。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 在給這些網友的回覆上,除了簡短說明自己的觀察及心境外(懶得講太仔細,面對不理性的人,怎麼講怎麼被挑啊),也有些小調皮的回覆。這些回覆,可以說並沒針對特定的人講,甚至有些是表明我的處世觀,不同解讀,就會有不同的感受。沒意外,這些網友自然往負面解讀鑽,而我的用意,也是希望他們能從中更清楚地「看見自己」。(抱歉,我頑皮了)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 我覺得<b>一個人的心量真的很重要。</b>一個人不可能做到面面俱到,讓每個人都無可挑剔,也不可能永遠都不犯錯。為什麼我們自己也做不到,卻不能去同理、包容他人的錯誤?甚至,有些事根本沒有所謂的對錯,只是「視角」的問題,為什麼不去聚焦在「更好」上呢?看清了這些,也許我們就能不再那麼苛責對方,也可以放自己一馬。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 今天<b>楊智為</b>老師幫<span style="color: #38761d;"><b>EMC菁英管理委員會</b></span>、<b><span style="color: blue;">BEST蝙蝠教育服務團隊</span></b>志工上領導課程時,就提到過去對組織傷害極大的離職員工:「你看著吧!我有一天一定會再找他回來當我的員工的。」心量真的大到…。<b><span style="color: purple;">我想,這就是很單純的愛,很單純的相信吧!因為相信,那份對人無私的愛就可以延續下去。那,才是身為一個「人」應該信守的東西吧!</span></b>我想。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 我還不夠好(不是不好,是可以更好),不夠有智慧,偶爾還是會情緒化。但我知道自己該努力修行的方向在哪,因為有一個以身作則的典範在我們前面引領著我們。也希望有朝一日,傳遞正向思維能量的<b>全方位人才培訓營</b>,能為冷漠、麻痺、「甘苦」的台灣人們帶來一股強而有力的暖流。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 人「<span style="color: blue;"><b>定</b></span>」,勝天。改變世界,改變教育,從改變自己、修練自己開始做起。Keep walking.</span>苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-16712201121808792722015-01-11T21:23:00.000+08:002015-01-11T21:44:18.505+08:00全方位人才培訓營的默默扎根<span style="font-size: large;"> 今天<span style="color: blue;"><b>林信廷</b></span>老師到台中ATC全方位人才培訓營,與同學分享「台上三分鐘,台下十年功~鎂光燈下的明星夢」。而我這次「受邀」(任命)擔任接送老師的司機,在從高鐵往台中救國團的路上,與老師就許多議題分享彼此的看法。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 這些議題,包含了<b>教育、政治、媒體、台灣人民的盲從性及短視,以及近幾年全方位人才培訓營之所以難以推廣的原因</b>。其實這些議題都是從教育開始延伸出去的。今天台灣教育的病症之所以這麼多、這麼嚴重,跟政府政策、媒體操作、大環境的轉變、人民的思維都脫離不了關係。要改變教育現況,就要想辦法解決這些盤根錯節的問題。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 其中最讓我印像深刻的,是老師提到:「<b><span style="color: red;">之前看到一個數據,說到台灣農會的經費支出,有80%是拿去做補助,只有20%是拿來做建設。這樣台灣怎麼可能會好呢?</span></b>」雖然台灣人很看重補助,政客很愛端補助牛肉已不是新聞,但聽到這樣的比例差距,還是嚇了一跳。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 而導致這些問題的主要原因,在於台灣人已被教育成<b style="background-color: yellow;">短視</b>份子了(人類都是,只是台灣人特別嚴重),凡事習慣看近不看遠,所以喜歡立即見效的補習班,不在乎學生是否真的融會貫通;喜歡制定統一的教課內容方便評鑑,不在乎那些適合其他教育方式的孩子天賦是否被埋沒;喜歡給予立即有感的補助,不在乎未來子子孫孫要背負多大的債務;喜歡做代工,賺快錢,而不是研發設計及品牌行銷;喜歡提任內四年要做什麼,不在乎什麼才是對長遠未來有益的。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 在這樣的氛圍下,<b><span style="color: blue;">資源往往被短視的人快速瓜分,而真正有遠見、想做事的人只能拿到少得可憐的經費,能做的改變也很有限</span></b>。就像全方位人才培訓營一樣,21年來始終堅持在教育體系外培養更多學生學校不教的能力及態度,不接受外界捐款、自力更生,並讓學生用最少的支出享有最多的資源。因為創辦者的遠見,因為培育人才的價值,讓所有的工作同仁有著特別強韌的使命感,再苦,也會繼續堅持做對的事。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 教育,不能抄短線。這是我們要教育學生、家長、大眾的,那就從我們自己開始做起。相信有一天,我們這隻小小蝴蝶,也會引發颶風的發生的。</span>苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5177681967766896685.post-44872217766238943672015-01-02T18:57:00.000+08:002015-01-02T19:14:10.819+08:00[全方位人才培訓營]就在我想放棄時,老天爺跟我開了個玩笑<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 有時放棄,是為了能夠更好。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 當負責的工作項目愈來愈多時(很多是自己撿來做的),不得不承認<span style="color: blue;">有限的時間及心思很難顧及每件事。</span>不自覺地,漸漸減少了對台南EMC菁英管理委員會志工的關心,忽略了台中BEST蝙蝠教育服務團隊志工的指導。對不起,真的對不起。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 即使如此,仍感覺自己像個雜耍小丑,不斷拋接手上的球:開車、粉絲專頁發文、讓改變看得見專案、校園免費講座、臨時性交辦任務…。而自從上了文案達人唐崇達老師四次文案寫作課後,深覺文案及故事對於組織品牌的重要性,因此最近還要逼自己寫故事練功,要指導志工如何寫心得記錄。然而,若硬是要再塞一顆球,就要冒著每顆球都漏接的風險。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 而這幾顆球中,份量最重的就是粉絲專頁的經營了,可以說是跟生活完全綁在一起。開車時想,慢跑時想,看FB時想,看書時想,<span style="color: #b45f06;">就連睡覺半夢半醒間想到一句不錯的話,都要趕快爬起來記下來。</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 總覺得,排除搞笑、八卦、謾罵,我一直抓不到年輕人的tone調。習慣看得太高太廣太遠,加上生活習性與絕大多數年輕人迥異,愈難找到交集與共鳴。花費這麼多的時間及心思經營了一年多,犧牲了把其他事情做得更好的機會,卻不見明顯的成效,讓自己不由萌生放棄的念頭:「換個人來做會更好。」它,變成了我最想先放掉的球。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 不是逃避,而是因為看重,所以我希望有個更適合的人能接下它,也希望有更多的餘力能把其他事情做得更好。「<span style="color: red;">有時放棄,是為了能夠更好。</span>」如果什麼事都只做60分,永遠無法讓自己出色,永遠無法影響這個世界。(對不起,我無法忍受犧牲睡眠換來不清醒的腦袋,做低效率的工作。)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">別人願意po些沒營養但人們愛看的,你堅持不要;</span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">別人會寫些安慰的心情小語,你卻要人們更正向、更堅強。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><b> 2014年最後一天近午</b>,我把種種「不適任」的理由告訴了公司某位主管。第一直覺會想找他說,是因為他常常說我把粉絲專頁經營得不錯,雖然我一直不這麼覺得。對照其他熱門粉絲專頁就知道,其實自己的經營成效是不及格的。連志工都吸引不了的文章,就知道是有問題的。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: purple;"> 然而,就在我跟該位主管表明此事20分鐘後,我在粉絲專頁上發佈了一張自創圖,徹徹底底推翻我的論述。</span>短短一小時多就有<b><span style="color: blue;">上百位</span></b>按讚(這是熱門貼文的頂標了),到了晚上11點臨睡前增加到<b><span style="color: blue;">三百多</span></b>個讚,真是出乎意料之外。「應該有機會破500個。」感覺有什麼事正在發生,但我並沒想太多,那晚睡得很好,連煙火聲都沒聽到。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"> </span><b style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;">隔日</b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">晨跑後回到家貼早圖,發現點讚數來到了</span><b style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: blue;">485</span></b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">。貼完早圖後,我刻意閉關,對這陣子來的工作、生活進行沉澱。將近一天沒打開FB,</span><b style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;">今早</b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">醒來用手機一看,「天啊!發生什麼事了?」怎麼才一天,點讚數就翻了</span><span style="color: blue; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"><b>10倍</b></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">?每週新粉絲人數也變</span><b style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: blue;">10倍</span></b><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 早上花了不少時間觀看留言與轉貼,並做回覆(唉,為何要逼我提早出關呢?),發現不少留言來自香港的朋友,也有大陸跟馬來西亞的,內容不外乎這些國家的教育跟台灣一樣過於著重讀書考試。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: red;"> </span><u style="color: red;">我真的覺得,老天爺跟我開了個玩笑,在我想放棄時叫我不要放棄</u><span style="color: red;">,讓我無意間找到做這件事的定位、意義與價值,也讓我對全方位人才培訓營的「</span><b style="color: red;">為什麼</b><span style="color: red;">」有了無比清晰的圖像:「</span><b><span style="color: #b45f06;">看見自己如何可以更好,做自己生命的主人。</span></b><span style="color: red;">」</span>知識、技巧的學習都只是表象,那種<span style="color: blue;">對自身、對環境的覺察,讓學生不再自我設限或被環境限制,找到學習的動能及對生命的熱情,才是全方位人才培訓營最重要的價值。</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 要成功不難,因為有些成功是僥倖的,要持續做、持續成功才是最難的。要維持每天都有這種高人氣的點讚及轉貼勢必要煞費苦心,我也自認無法做得到,<b>但這似乎不重要了,重要的是我們堅持的是什麼,想要傳遞的是什麼,然後持續做,一直做,直到下次再次成功,高興一下,再繼續做。</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 就像楊智為老師大學時賣吸塵器一樣,等到第729次才賣出第一台,但不是此後就一帆風順,而是不再在意被拒絕幾次了,因為內心堅信一直做下去,就會再次與成功相遇。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 「<u>不要因為看不到成果而放棄努力,因為每一次的努力都在為成功打基礎。</u>」這是之前我在粉絲專頁的貼文,沒想到今天拿來提醒自己…(是啊!我們常常需要被提醒。全方位人才培訓營的貼文是在提醒同學,也是在提醒我自己。)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 我想,當「為什麼」變得很清晰時,要「做什麼」也會跟著變得清楚,就更懂得把時間心力放在對的事上,手中的球的重量也自然減輕很多。這,會讓小丑更快樂地表演下去吧!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"> 下午四點,數字持續刷新中…覺得可怕!XD</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">在散步的時候,他們看到路旁有一雙舊鞋子。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">原來有一個人把鞋子留在那裡,每天他工作完畢,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">就會回來找回他的鞋子,眼看下工的時間快到了。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">年輕學生突然和教授提議,想要跟那窮人開個小玩笑。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他提議把這雙鞋子藏起來,看看鞋子的主人回來,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">找不到鞋子時會有怎樣的反應。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">教授回答:「我們不要以捉弄窮人為樂。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">你可以換個方式,為這人做一點好事,例如放些錢幣</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">在每一隻鞋子裡,再看看他發現鞋子時將會如何。」</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">那學生決定照著教授的話去做,然後他們躲在樹林後,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">觀看那窮人會有甚麼反應。不久那窮人下工了,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他回到路旁找到他的東西。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他一面穿上衣服,一面把腳穿進第一隻鞋子裡。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他立刻覺得有東西在鞋裡,待彎腰一看,發現有一枚銀幣在那隻鞋子裡面。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他臉上顯出驚愕的表情,又把銀幣翻來覆去,看了又再看,是否有人惡作劇。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">但發現四周無人,於是他把銀幣放在口袋裡。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他繼續穿另外一隻鞋,竟又發現了另一枚銀幣,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他臉上第二次出現驚喜的表情,高興之餘,便馬上跪下感恩禱告。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他謝謝上帝知道他的妻子生病,家裡也沒甚麼錢,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">他更感謝神,藉著不知何人的手使他絕處逢生。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">那人離開後,年輕學生站在教授身旁,心中很受感動而淚水盈眶。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">教授便問他:「你覺得你後來所做的,是不是比先前的壞主意更有意義?」</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">那年輕人答道:「是的,我上了一生難忘的寶貴功課,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">更學習到我從不明白的真理──施比受更為有福。」</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">以上是一個短短的小故事,卻看見生命許多的大道理。路邊的一雙鞋,被年輕人和教授看到確有著截然不同的反應,這反映出我們對生命的態度。簡單來說<strong>生命就是不斷延續的</strong></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;"><strong>「人我關係」,從至親好友到點頭之交,我們每天在應對的就是「人際互動」的問題</strong>,這個就是智慧所在。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">第一個智慧<strong>「把別人當成自己」</strong>,這樣就可以真正同情別人的不幸,理解別人的需要,並且在別人需要的時候,給予適時的幫助。這是教授的第一個反應,但年輕人卻是把</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">「別人當玩笑」,如果用年輕人的態度看世界,真的會紛擾不斷,因為你整人別人也會整你,整來整去這個世界就如港式鬧劇般的「無厘頭」,我們每天看政治人物不就是這種感覺。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">第二個智慧<strong>「把別人當成別人」</strong>,簡言之</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">「尊重」,尊重別人跟你一樣是一個獨立個體,他有他的權益,消極的做法是保持距離以策安全,但會導致社會變得很冷漠,正確而積極的做法是維護彼此的權益,例如「讓」這個中國人古老的智慧,簡單來說就是不過度強調自我意識,給予彼此一定程度的空間,</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">《小爾雅》有云</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">:</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">詰責以辭謂之讓,《左傳》也說</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">:</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體-extb,serif;">𤰞</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">讓,德之基也,</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">「積極地維護彼此生命主權」</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">這才是一個健全的人生態度。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">第三個智慧,也是最深澳的,<strong>「把自己當成自己」</strong>,這真的需要時間去淬鍊,就是要</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">「學尊重自己」,在我們一生中我們會做出多少「不尊重生命」的決定,許多惡習例如吸毒、酗酒等等都是順從自己的慾望但卻不尊重自己的事,或許你當下得到快感了,但對於長遠的生命而言是受虧損的,不過生命中不是只有這些顯而易見的事,所以「尊重自己(</span>生命)」這是一個需要一生去學習的智慧。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif;">我喜歡這樣想,生命是趟不斷學習的旅程,生與死的過程中,唯一要一直做的一件事,就是好好學習!學習品味生命的每一刻的滋味與意涵,學習活出更美好的生命價值,學習卓越的心智,與完整的自我。在呼吸之間。</span></span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">我是只麻雀</span></b><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">,我沒有蒼鷹那樣<b>強</b><b>健的雙翅</b>,可以<b>傲然凌空</b>,在高山之巔,在藍天之下<b>自由自在飛翔</b>;我不是海燕,每當暴風雨來臨時,我只好躲個地方,遮風避雨。</span><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></div>
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<span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">我是只麻雀,我沒有<b>孔雀的艷麗</b>,讓人駐足觀賞;我也不是畫眉鳥,能唱只好聽的歌給人們聽;我更不是只鸚鵡,能<b>說好聽的話,討人們歡心</b>。</span></div>
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<span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">我是只麻麻雀,我沒有天鵝<b>遠行的本領</b>,春暖花開時候回到保護區;嚴寒來臨,遠走他鄉;我只能呆在這裡,無論酷暑和寒冬;我更不是海鷗,可以在滇池邊上盡享人們的美食。(</span><b><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% rgb(219, 229, 241); color: #5f497a; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">大專生涯發展協會</span></b><span style="font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">小編:看到這裏你有什麼感想?)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">我是只麻雀,沒有禿鷲那樣<b>犀利的眼神</b>,能找到腐屍;我不是啄木鳥,有堅硬的嘴殼,啄開樹皮找到美食。我只能在林地裡,草地上,垃圾推裡尋找殘食。</span><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></div>
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<span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">我是只麻雀,我渴望還能有乾淨的天空,不要太髒的水;我渴望我能找回去的食物裡不要含有三聚氰胺。</span><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;"></span></div>
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<b><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% rgb(219, 229, 241); color: #5f497a; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">大專生涯發展協會</span></b><span style="font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">小編看完後,不知與你的想法是否一致?如果只會否定自己、如果只看得到不足之處,活在與別人的比較裏,是不會有快樂的!千萬不要當這樣的</span><b><span style="color: #4e3207; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">麻雀啊</span></b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=5177681967766896685" name="_GoBack"></a><span style="color: black; font-family: 'serif'; font-size: 14pt;">。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong><span style="background-color: yellow; font-family: '新細明體','serif';">大專生涯發展協會</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: '新細明體','serif';">小編</span></strong><span style="font-family: '新細明體','serif';">曾提過,被指責時不要難過,正因為愛之深,責之切,才會有批評的出現。也不要怕去指責他人,罵人也是有藝術的。也介紹過何謂罵人的藝術。但今次,<strong><span style="background-color: yellow;">大專生涯發展協會</span>小編</strong>要介紹的則是回應批評的五部曲。</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';">1.</span></strong><strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';">保持冷靜</span></strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">受到批評後,你第一時間的反應最重要,它是讓情況變得更糟或更好的關鍵。無論批評來自誰,所有專家一致建議:保持冷靜。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">情緒性的反彈只會讓你跌進自己挖的洞裡,坐實別人對你的偏見──「不理性,不可靠,難怪會出包」。當你還不知道該說什麼時,先做個深呼吸,有禮貌地聽完對方的話。</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';">2.</span></strong><strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';">轉換空間</span></strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">如果批評你的人堅持自己是對的,雙方的對話也找不到交集,那麼,離開現場是比較合適的做法,以免兩造在心情不佳的情況下,讓批評進一步演變成衝突。告訴對方,你很感謝他的指教,然後不動聲色地離開。等雙方都心平氣和後再回來,可以讓氣氛更緩和,弭平對立的感覺。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">專業管理網站“MindTools”在「面對不公允的批評」(Dealing with Unfair Criticism)一文中指出,受到批評時,別強迫自己馬上做出漂亮的回應,也不要逞一時口舌之快,轉而攻擊對方。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: '新細明體','serif';"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">比較好的做法是──重複對方的話,確定你完全理解他的意思,例如問:「你是說我………嗎?」當你重複對方的話時,眼神堅定地看著他,保持平和的語氣,不要動怒。你的目的是擺脫個人偏見,把焦點放在雙方意見相左的問題上。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">如果對方的批評內容真的很離譜,你重複他的話,反而可以凸顯出他的不合理之處。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">不過,千萬不要過度詮釋。假設有人說你的銷售策略成效不彰,不需要解讀成:「你的意思是說,因為我的銷售策略,導致公司營收下滑嗎?」那樣只顯得你防衛心過重,也會讓場面充滿火藥味。</span></span></div>
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力資源顧問布倫(MarkE. Van Burenn)在《哈佛商業評論》(Harvard Business
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Paradox)一文中指出,研究顯示,表現不佳的領導人經常以負面方式來回應批評。「他們認為任何批評都是惡意攻擊,完全沒有能力處理別人的指責,」布
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">布倫以一位新創公司的業務主管丹尼絲為例,儘管團隊成員對丹尼絲的業務計劃提出有憑有據的反對意見,她仍執意地認為他們是因為討厭她才這麼說,反而更加一意孤行。結果,團隊成員一個個出走,丹尼絲自己終究也因為計劃失敗,目標無法達成而掛冠求去。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">布倫提醒,如果領導人無法面對別人的批評指責,表示他很難看到自己的弱點,就算想改善,也不一定有成效。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">無論如何,面對批評時,儘量避免以負面方式做回應,包括變本加厲、自暴自棄等,都會產生殺傷力。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">此外,你還要小心,不要讓批評傷害了你的自尊與自信。正確的批評自然要虛心接受,不實的批評錯不在你,就更不必因此貶低自己了。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">當你以第3個方法重複批評的內容時,其實也給了對方重新思考的空間與時間,此時,正是你們展開對話,釐清彼此觀念的好時機。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">很多時候,批評與不滿是因為誤解而產生,因此,你可以跟對方說:「從我的角度來看,……」、「我知道你的意思,不過,你可能誤會了,實際狀況是……」。接下來,就是你們的溝通時間了。</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">進行對話,表示你願意站在對方的角度看事情,也請對方站在你的角度,重新評價。</span></span></div>
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轉自:<a href="http://ccdayang.pixnet.net/blog/post/29263124">http://ccdayang.pixnet.net/blog/post/29263124</a>苦難天堂http://www.blogger.com/profile/15280916490946134381noreply@blogger.com0